Thanksgiving Week

We've had a wonderful Thanksgiving week. Edgar was just commenting this morning on how blessed we are, and how good we really have it :) November's been a very good month for us. We spent Sunday the 23rd at Edgar's grandparent's house. The picture above is his grandparents--Francisco is holding Eli Francisco :) It was a very nice afternoon. Edgar's mom cooked an amazing feast, and we had a great time with family. Eli was a big hit, of course, though he slept most of the time. When he did wake up, he wasn't super happy, but he did really well during picture time.
On Tuesday I went to see my doctor, and she said that everything is healing really well. I asked her when I could start running again, and she said I could start now! Of course, since I can't even walk a mile yet, I think running is a little far off, but it's good to know I can start working toward that. I have already lost 20 pounds, which is exciting. I have quite a few more to go, but at least I've got a good start :)
Thanksgiving day was spent at Ryan and Jennifer's, though we did go back to Edgar's grandparent's house for a quick visit--it was their anniversary. Once we got to Ryan's house we had a relaxing day of eating and hanging out. Jennifer did an amazing job on dinner, and I now refuse to believe that she doesn't cook. Everything was fabulous. My favorite? The corn casserole. I just finished off the last of our leftovers, and am kind of wishing I took more :)
After dinner we went for a walk with the kids--including Eli (He seems to really love his stroller. I can't wait to try running with it!) We walked just over a half mile, which is frankly, about as far as I can go on a full stomach...I'm going to try for a mile today...slowly, but surely, right?!
After the walk we had dessert and coffee, and had a highly entertaining time watching Ben & Carly sing with the Karaoke machine. I was laughing so hard Edgar had to take Eli.
We came home and put Eli to bed. He is doing so good at night. He eats about every 3 hours during the night--sometimes he'll go longer. The only problem seems to be he has an extremely wet diaper at about 3 am, and for the past 3 nights in a row I have had to completely change his pj's in the middle of the night. Now I'm barely awake when I dress him in the morning, let alone at 3:30 in the morning. I am hoping the trend changes...I'm going to try and help the trend change by maybe getting some more absorbent diapers :) This morning at 4 am when I was putting new pj's on him, I did notice, however, that his umbilical chord was gone. I have no idea where it went--I looked through his pack 'n play, and through his pj's, but it's not there. It must have been in his diaper. I'll be glad to give him a 'real' bath tomorrow, and not have to worry about getting that wet.
Here's a picture of what his bellybutton actually looks like :)

This morning Edgar dressed Eli, and he promptly proceeded to poop right through all of his clothes, so we redressed him...again (yes, that's 4 outfits in 4 hours...yup, I'm doing laundry today) I thought this outfit was pretty cute. It's a 0-3 month outfit, so it's a little big, but I LOVE the red on him. I think he looks really cute in darker colors. And check it out! He's sitting up on his own! (Just ignore the pillow propping him up :) )

Believe it or not, there are some things going on in our lives other than Eli :) Today Edgar is out shopping for a new car. Hopefully we will have a new car by the end of the day. My car is...well...Edgar doesn't like it, it doesn't get very good gas mileage, things are starting to wrong with it...and the biggest issue is, the stroller doesn't fit in the trunk. So we are buying a fuel efficient car for Edgar to drive to work, and I am going to take over his Honda. I'm excited to get the new car, even though I won't get to drive it much. It will be nice to have 2 very reliable vehicles. We also got our laptop in the mail today. I'm SO excited to have this! Now I won't be confined to the office when I am doing my work for my classes I teach. We also got a new vacuum today (Feels like Christmas today!) Edgar got it out of the box and vacuumed all of the carpet in the house. He was pretty excited to have the carpets cleaned.

Once we actually get the car home, I'll be sure to send pictures.

Anyway, that's what's going on with us. Hopefully everyone had a fabulous Thanksgiving!

On our own...well...sort of :)

Well, mom and dad have left, and now Edgar and I are 'home alone' with Eli. Fortunately for us, our family here in Florida is sure to swing by often--which I am very thankful for. Right after mom and dad left Eli ate and took a nap, and I was watching him sleep, and noticed for the first time how fast he was breathing, and I suddenly realized how many questions I have for my mom :) Fortunately Jennifer assured me it is very normal for a baby to breath faster than an adult.

These past 10 days have been so much fun--exhausting, but fun. I have loved getting to know my son, and still can't believe he's mine. (well...he's Edgar's too :) ) I still get teary eyed everytime I think about the fact that he gets to stay with me. He's just so beautiful. I'm pretty sure my hormones are running rampant, however, and I will probably stop being so mushy soon (yes...I am crying while I write all this...hormones are exhausting!)

Eli is getting big so fast! I can tell he has gained weight--soon I will be needing pillows or a bopy to prop him up while I nurse him. His face has filled out nicely, and I secretly think he is looking more like a McGregor all of the time (although now the secret is out...) Don't get me wrong, there is no denying he is Edgar's son...but I think he's got a little McGregor in him too :) He is really quite strong as well. He holds his head up so well! And I swear when I put him on his belly he nearly pushes himself over. I'm sure that won't happen for a while, but he really pushes with his arms. He's so cute when he's awake. He seems very alert, and looks at everything. I put a video at the end of the blog of him watching the mobile dad and mom got for him. I love watching him watch it. The video is kind of long...sorry, but if you have 2 minutes, you might enjoy it :)

The nursery is still a work in progress. Mom made the pillows for the 'day bed' and we put up a 'rubbing' on the wall (is that what you would call it?) Edgar and I are going to get the pictures hung this weekend, and hopefully have it all put together. I will post pictures as soon as it is done.

I'm putting a few pictures on the blog, and will send more on the Kodak site. Enjoy my beautiful baby boy!

One more update! I tried to send this yesterday, and it wouldn't send...so it's now Friday, and we just got back from the doctor's office. Eli now weighs 8 lbs exactly--which means he gained 12 oz in one week--my boy can eat!

Abuela & Abuelo came to visit on Sunday along with Eliud, Krista, Katie & LeilaniCarly helping me get Eli dressed.On Friday we went to the doctor's office for his first check-up, so we gave him a bath--this was my first attempt at giving him a bath...a little scary.Dr. Yee checking Eli out. Everything looks good! He's already gained 4 oz!After the doctor's offuce we went to Cracker Barrrel.Today Eli was playing on his playmat, and was just staring at himself. It was pretty cute :)

Ok...so I can't get the video to upload for some reason...I'll try again another time.

Eli has arrived!!!

Eli has come home! We are so excited to finally have him here. I am pretty sure he is the most beautiful baby I have ever seen. I'm so amazed at how perfect he is! I love just sitting there and staring at him :) For those of you that don't know, he arrived Monday morning (the 10th) at 9:34 am. He was 7 lb 7 oz, and 21 inches long. Labor was not at all what I had planned...we went in to the hospital to get checked because I was concerned that my water had broke. They admitted us, and started us on Pitocin. I had that from noon until 6pm, and got to experience some fabulous contractions. They took me off the pitocin and were going to keep me off of it for the night, and give me a different drug overnight to see if it would help labor get going. Well...right before they were about to give it to me, my water broke completely (a very odd feeling, I must say...) So we continued laboring through the night, rather than 'taking a break' like the doctor had planned. At this point, I was exhausted. I hadn't really slept for the past 2 nights, and I hadn't eaten all day...so I decided I didn't think I could labor all night and then push out a baby that was potentially very big, and was up really high. I knew I would be pushing for a while, so I decided on an Epidural...the one thing I vowed I would never get :) It was about the scariest thing I've ever experienced. I was shaking so bad, but once it got in, I felt nothing. In fact, I slept through the night while I labored. The nurse came in every hour or two to check on me, and that woke me up, but I went right back to sleep. They put me back on pitocin right after they started the epidural, but Eli was not responding well to it. His heart rate would drop pretty low, so they took me off the pitocin at 1 am, but I continued on with labor just fine (though I felt none of it) In fact, at 5 I was dilated 5 cm, and at 6 I was dilated 10...(yup...slept through that). The baby was still up pretty high at 6, so they tried to get him to move down for about 45 more minutes by changing my position often. At 6:45 I started to push, and pushed until 8:30. At that point the dcotor was getting concerned because his heart rate continued to drop during contractions, but then would shoot up to 190 or 200 in between. They said I would probably need a C-section. I asked if I could push for a little while longer. I really wanted to try to push him out. I pushed like mad until 9:00 (really trying to avoid the C-Section) and he made some progress, but not enough. His heart rate was still doing the same thing, and then I got a fever of 102...and the pushing was done. We had to have a C-Section. I was pretty upset, but Edgar was right there, and was very encouraging. He made the final decision, which was a blessing, because I really didn't want to. They increased my epidural, and delivered Eli. He cried as soon as he was out. It was the most beautiful thing I have ever heard!!! I didn't get to see him right away, because they were concerned about his heart rate, and thought he might have a fever, so they took him right over and examined him. Edgar went over and took some pictures, and came over and showed them to me. Eli was running a very low fever-not high enough for him to have to go to the NICU, so they brought him over and I held him while they stiched me up. Edgar was right there the whole time. It was one of the most precious moments in my life. Once I was stiched up, they took us to recovery, and then to our room. My fever came down right away, so we were in our room by noon. Eli stayed with us the whole time.

My mom and dad arrived that evening, and we had visitors throughout the day. It was so fun to show him off!!! We stayed in the hospital until Wednesday morning, and are now home. We basically just stare at this beautiful baby all day :) He is so content, and is doing so good. He is nursing really well, and is SO alert when he is awake. I've put a few picutres on, and there is a video at the end of his first bath. If you want more pictures, let me know. I am going to upload them to the Kodak site, and I can send you the link. I will try and keep you updated!This is Eli AND Edgar's first diaper change. I thought these pictures were hilarious. Daddy reading to Eli :)Finally home!

A quick update

Well...no change. I still have yet to start dilating. It's a little frustrating, but I know it will be fine. I was reading an e-mail today, and it had a quote in it by Charles Spurgeon:
"We are in a hurry; the vision of the blessings excites our desires and hastens our longings; but the Lord will keep His appointments. He is never before His time; He never is behind." A good reminder that the Lord has Eli's birthday all picked out :) And like my dad said today, 25 years from now when Eli's the starting shortstop for the Rays (or Tigers....) none of this will matter :)
The doctor does want me to come back on Monday which is the day before my actual due date. They can't induce until I start dilating...so there is really little I can do right now. She did say if I haven't started dilating by the 18th they would have to do a C-Section, so hopefully something will happen in the next week.
Everything seems to be really good with Eli. He's moving a lot (which is more painful than it once was...) and seems to have dropped a little more. It's getting exciting thinking about him being here. Soon I get to hold him :)

The promised pictures

Greetings. I finally got some pictures from the shower, and a couple of recent pictures as well. Edgar and I got a new camera, and we are in the process of learning how to use it, so only one of these pictures is actually taken with our camera. Most of these pictures Ruth took. I have decided that I am looking more and more like a large whale...I don't look like this in the mirror, I have decided, so the camera must be lying :) Anyway, here are a few shots, so you can see my progressive growth. Enjoy.This is my brother & sister-in-law and their little girl Katie.
This is the cake that Krista made--she did an AWESOME job.
This is a picture of the Melendez kids :) This was actually at Katie's birthday party.

This picture was taken last night at Edgar's dad's birthday party.

No baby yet :)

Back at the doctor today, hence the update :) Things are still very much the same. I had really hoped to start moving somewhat toward delivery, but no luck. The doctor said that she wasn't really comfortable inducing next week, because you should really be dialated a little bit before you induce, and she doesn't think I will be...so we set a tentative date for November 13. We'll see if I go any earlier than that, but Eli seems completely content to stay where he is...so I have a feeling we will be inducing on the 13th, and not going into labor on my own. Oh well, I guess. I was a little frustrated, because last week my doctor had me worried that the baby was getting too big, and would need to induce next week, but this week didn't seem worried about it. She said he didn't seem too big, and I should be fine. (again, because I'm a 'big' girl..which always cracks me up when she says it :) )
I think the past couple of weeks have been good for me in a couple of ways. I am so determined for this all to go my way on my time...and I feel like God is quietly telling me to trust HIM in all of this. I want to have it all figured out, and I don't think that is what God has in mind. Tonight in Bible Study I was reminded that God is UNHASTING. A beautiful reminder that God DOES have everything 'figured out' on HIS timetable, and that His timetable is the very best one for me. One of our elders taught the Bible study tonight, and read a story that he wrote...it was an amazing story of how God is in no rush for us to learn His lessons, and wants us to be JOYFUL in the midst of things that don't go our way. It was a good reminder...glad I went to church :)
Anyway, I am trying to learn to just WAIT and trust that His plan is good, and that it will all work out the way God wants it to. I don't need to worry that Eli will come too soon, or too late, or that mom & dad will get here too soon or too late, or if I will have to have a C-section, or any of it...God in His time will take care of it all. I am blessed.

Back at the Doctor

Still no camera...sorry.
I went to the doctor again today, and was encouraged and discouraged at the same time. No progress so far as far as dilation goes, which I was pleased with initially, because I want him to stay put until mom and dad get here :) But then she told me if I haven't delivered they will probably induce me sometime between the 6th and the 11th...so mom and dad probably won't be here yet. The thing that was the hardest to swallow, was that she said I have a 50/50 chance for a C-section. That is the ONE thing I don't want to happen. It was probably good for her to at least put it in my mind so I am not disappointed if it does happen (though I think I will have a hard time with it...) but it is scary to think about. I've been kind of down in the dumps about it all day, but, as Jenny said "It's better to cry about it now, than after it happens"...at least I can get it in my head as a possibility. I am going to try and labor unless they tell me the baby is too big--which means there is a potential of pushing for a long time, and still having to have a C-Section, but I think I want to be able to say I at least tried everything I could. I may have another sonogram on November 5, and if the baby is too big then, Edgar and I will have some decisions to make...
One encouraging thing the Doctor did say was that even if they have to induce labor, I should be able to do it without an epidural. I had heard that when you induce the contractions come so hard, you have to have drugs, but my doctor said that that wasn't true. They can regulate the Pitocin (sp...) so that the contractions aren't coming and an unbearable pace. That was very encouraging, because being induced scares me a little bit...(plus it increases the risk of C-Section..)
All that to say, however, Eli is doing just great. He's been moving more than ever lately, it seems. His heart rate is good, and he is in position--though he hasn't dropped yet (Although I thought he had...he seems to be sitting lower, but the Doctor didn't think he had). We are pretty much 'ready' for him to come, in the sense that we have diapers, wipes, a crib, a car seat, clothes and milk :) He really could come at any time, which is scary and exciting at the same time. I've been reading books and magazines, and learning that no one agrees :)
Anyway, Ben and Carly just arrived. We are watching them tonight so Ryan and Jennifer can go to the World Series (That's pretty fun to type...). I'll continue to keep you updated!